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RISING WOMEN EXPERT
ADVICE...
Why is it that I am always the one telling my partner how to be in a
relationship? He just doesn’t get it!
There comes a time in every relationship when a woman must ask, “Is this a
good man having a bad day, or is this a bad man having a good day?” In those
moments, a little perspective could save us a lot of grief!
One of the most valuable things that I have learned in my journey so far is
men and women are different and we wouldn’t want it any other way! Yet, I
have met many women who wonder why their partner can’t be more aware of
their impact, and many men who wonder why women make relationships so
complicated.
If we think about it, a woman is equipped with a womb and the ability to
gestate, nurture and give birth to life. In the same way, it is her
naturalness to sit with a situation, take in all of its interrelationships
and give birth to an outcome in her own right timing. From a man’s
perspective, this is a very mysterious process!
Men, on the other hand, come equipped with the ability to generate millions
of ideas and opportunities for life. It is their naturalness to fire off as
many of these ideas as possible and, in the end; they just want something
good to come of it. No man wants to hear he did not do a good job!
Yes, it is true that some men are better in a relationship than others and
not all women “get it”. We each have our own balance of masculine and
feminine energy. As women, many of us have lost touch with our inner knowing
and are just now finding our way back to our naturalness. In fact, most
women hate it when I tell them they are the teachers of relationship.
So, take a moment to ask yourself if you are with a good man who “just
doesn’t get it”. Do you have the courage to be the woman of power you really
are and gently share what you know? Men who are more aware in relationship
have likely been accepted for who they are and experienced the benefit of a
positive feminine image-maker. Perhaps now, that image-maker is you!
For more information on how to live the life you want, contact Leia Gamache
at WhiteFire Coaching at 403.875.7594 or
what.if@shaw.ca
www.whitefirecoaching.org
www.whitefirecoaching.blogspot.com
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