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RISING WOMEN EXPERT
ADVICE...
How can I lead by example to instil more confidence, self pride and
self respect in my children but also teach them about having compassion for
others?
We never forget the feeling we get when we receive that special something
on Christmas morning, or the feeling we get when we give that special
someone that special something that makes their eyes light up. The sad thing
is that not everyone gets to experience those incredible moments which are
important elements in learning compassion for others.
We as parents want to give our children the very best that we can, so why
not give them the gift of confidence, self pride and self respect. And yes,
we need to lead by example and show them a better way. Compassion and
empathy empower children. To share and teach feelings of unconditional
compassion for other gives us hope for a better tomorrow.
I asked my children, who have been doing “Pay It Forward” birthdays since
they were 6 years old, “what do you like about doing them?” Their answers
were simple and to the point. “We don’t want other people and animals to be
sad,” said my 7 year old. “I feel really good when I make someone else feel
good,” said my 9 year old.
I remember when my oldest daughter had her first “Pay It Forward” birthday.
She asked for donations to her charity of choice. After the party, the
children were able to deliver their donations to the charity. They felt
proud when they were able to show the volunteers what they were sharing. The
children were allowed to stay and help the workers. I was grateful to be
able to share this special moment with them. My daughter was never upset
about sharing her gifts with others because she is able to see how much she
has and how much others appreciate her help. She was then able to learn how
good it felt to help others and the feelings of joy that you receive from
these selfless acts.
When we look at the world and see others suffering in ways that we can never
imagine and knowing that we have the power to change their lives, why
wouldn’t we? We have the chance and the responsibility to change our mind
set and to show other individuals that we are a global community that needs
to work together. We do believe that one selfless act can change the world,
are you ready to do your part?
For more compassionate advice on the “Paying It Forward” concept,
contact Trish Pujos-Michel & Carol Perkins, owners of Forward Sharing at
403.938.7440. Visit them at
www.inspireyourchildren.com to learn more about their unique party
concepts.
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