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 RISING WOMEN EXPERT
ADVICE...
How can someone be proficient in picking up negative and bullying
behaviour in others, but appear to be oblivious to the fact that they often
use these same behaviours to communicate?
How can someone be proficient in picking up negative and bullying
behaviour in others, but appear to be oblivious to the fact that they often
use these same behaviours to communicate?
This is an example of someone’s logical mind (conscious) knowing that
certain behaviours are unacceptable but due to a limiting belief held (in
sub-conscious) perhaps for many years, they are under the impression that
their own behavior is acceptable and maybe even helpful.
A limiting belief is composed of those things you believe about yourself
that place limitations on your abilities. These beliefs may be conscious or
unconscious. Our beliefs begin to form when we are young. They could be
passed on to us from our parents or come from things people say to us or
about us, and even from listening to negative people. Sometimes a belief is
formed by what we think we heard and our perceptions. So, although our
beliefs may not be based in reality, we go through life as if they are
facts. It’s been said that “whatever you believe becomes your reality; you
do not believe what you see rather you see what you already believe.”
Imagine for a moment a young boy being raised and seeing the adults in his
life arguing and putting each other down. A belief may be formed and enters
his sub-conscious that states this is a good way to solve problems and to
succeed in life. Throughout life he will seek situations and people who
reinforce this behaviour. Sometimes bullies are “called” on their behavior,
but often it is easier to side with the bully or to stay away. Bullies are
often moved into positions of power as a means to keep others in line. This
young boy may never understand why people tend to stay away from him or his
relationships fail unless something occurs in his life and he begins to
explore the areas in his life that are causing difficulty.
You do not have to wait for a crisis to make changes to improve your life.
Is your life how you envisioned it? Are you living your passion? Do you have
great relationships, health, confidence, joy and abundance? If not, your
limiting beliefs are controlling your life.
If you are not able to make the changes on your own, there are many
treatment options available such as traditional therapy, NLP or hypnosis
that can help you to change you beliefs and set behaviours effortlessly.
For more expert advice on changing your limiting beliefs, contact
Margaret Kirkendall, Social Worker, Clinical Hypnotherapist & owner of No
Limits Transformation at 403.471.4523 for a Free Consultation. |
