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If I was to have one New Year’s resolution this year it would be to
significantly reduce the stress in my daily life, but I’m not sure I know
how I can do that. Any suggestions to help?
By Cheryl Bakke Martin of Inspirations Studio
It helps to understand the “anatomy of stress”. Briefly, when we experience
stressful thoughts and feelings, our brain responds by dumping cortisol into
our system. This hormone affects us in many ways; it raises our blood
pressure, impairs our immune system, shortens our life span, makes us more
accident prone, and impairs our ability to concentrate and problem solve.
Living in a constant state of mid-level stress adversely affects our health
and personal effectiveness. Conversely, if we consciously choose more
positive emotions and slow, deep breathing, we change our heart’s rhythm and
this alters the brain’s response. In this state our brain circulates DHEA
through our body, which is so uplifting it is referred to as the “Vitality
Hormone”. DHEA promotes mental clarity, boosts immune function, and
decreases blood pressure. So, how do we engage this internal pharmacy to
experience these positive effects? In a word, mindfulness.
I’m referring here to a state of mind or the way in which we approach
anything in our lives. For instance, if you are enjoying a meal alone, allow
yourself the delight of focusing only on the experience of eating. Breath
deeply and truly emotionally. Choose to enjoy each bite. You’d be amazed at
how little food you need to completely satisfy you. This is why taking
regular time for creative activities is so renewing. When engaged in a
creative project in a mindful way we re-connect with our intuitive selves,
we escape our mental chatter, and we put our heart and brain into a state,
where we experience all the benefits noted above. For this reason, I guard
my own studio time unfailingly and lead “creative adventures” for others to
experience the same.
Other suggestions: When you peel potatoes (or prep any meal for that
matter), just BE with the potatoes! Breathe deeply and smell them,
experience them fully, be grateful for them, allow your mind to rest just on
the task at hand. Might sound a little ridiculous, but chemically your body
is responding to your adjusted breathing and emotions in a way that
completely changes your physiology.
Make this your daily mantra: “Don’t wait, meditate!” Any time you are
waiting in line, in traffic, for the kettle to boil, use that moment to
meditate, focusing on things and people you appreciate. Even a few minutes
throughout the day will give you relief from a stressed mind.
For more advice on finding balance in your life, contact Cheryl Bakke
Martin, mother of 2 boys, consultant, facilitator, artist & owner of
Inspirations Studio at 403.542.6241
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