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RISING WOMEN EXPERT
ADVICE...
Why do I keep picking the same type of man in my relationships? How
Can NLP change the pattern?
Picking the same type of person in primary relationships over and over
again is a painful dance of destruction where unconscious limiting beliefs
make choices for you, even to the point of ignoring your inner knowing.
What patterns do you run? “Tunnel vision” where you didn’t see destructive
patterns or do you believe you could “change” them? Do you tell yourself,
“He didn’t mean to say or do it” or loose yourself in relationships? Do you
give too much or feel they “owned” you? Do you want them to fill all of your
needs or tried to fill all of theirs? Did you mind read; knowing what’s best
for them or expect them to read your mind? If they really loved you, they
would know what you want, right? Did you manipulate, play games or are drawn
to master manipulators? Do you fall for the “bad boy” or go against values,
or live in a fantasy of someone rescuing you? These and other addictive
patterns can cause lots of drama in your life. But by not seeing, hearing or
feeling, you shut yourself down, give up yourself to others, to gain love
and approval.
Unconscious underlying limiting beliefs about not being (good, smart,
pretty) enough, not deserving or not feeling important, drive your actions
and focus to someone or something outside of yourself. NLP is one effective
technique that guides you to change limiting beliefs and behaviours.
Basically you have to learn to make yourself a priority and comfortably heal
and release limiting beliefs, traumas and behaviours. Try to understand and
separate what is other peoples emotional garbage and what is yours. NLP can
change unhealthy patterns in relationships, install boundaries and heal the
past.
Take care of yourself with a “Tool Box” of techniques and processes that
assist you to heal on a conscious and unconscious level. Discover what you
want in your personal life, relationships and career, and move towards
creating it. Develop your confidence; become aware of positive choices,
supporting beliefs and behaviours. Focus on seeing yourself emotionally
healthy; listening to supportive inner self talk and feeling yourself enjoy
the moment. As you heal, your relationship and life choices improve tenfold.
Live, Love, Laugh! That’s what you are here for.
For more details on this subject, please contact Jan Mitchell of
Expanding Minds at 403.225.2973 or visit her website at
www.expanding-minds.com
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