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RISING WOMEN EXPERT
ADVICE...
Why can I not find a
great love; the perfect relationship? I know it’s possible. Isn’t it?
Firstly, yes it is possible to have a great love in your life! So your
“spidy senses” are correct, and that is great news. You are not looking for
the impossible.
The “Why I/we can not find the great love” that we know we can have, has
many possible aspects to it. One of the biggest obstacles, that might also
be the hardest to grasp, comes from some part of our past that is stuck in a
loop of beliefs or thoughts that keep going around and around in your mind.
We all have surface patterns which we can catch ourselves in, however the
“no longer valid thought” or “false belief” is usually tucked away safely in
our unconscious. When triggered, we often recoil, isolate ourselves, get
angry or react negatively, and it’s always the other person’s fault. As much
as we want to get on with our lives, there is a part of ourselves that
resists looking at this pattern because we identify who we are through it.
Who would we be if we did not view the world through these patterns? We need
to evolve beyond the false belief so we can see who we truly are.
While usually created through childhood experiences, it is not so much about
what happened as it is about how we dealt with it based on our assumptions.
These assumptions were the bases of our underlying pattern of who we thought
we were. Because we never grow out of that assumption, it is the hidden
saboteur that tints the lens through which we see and experience our world,
and how we expect the world to respond to us. If we don’t evolve the false
belief, we create and recreate the same results. It might show up in our
personal relationships, our work relationships as well as our relationship
with our self.
We are much greater, more loving, more loved and more deserving of love then
any false belief pattern allows us to experience. We want great love. This
is possible! Once we evolve or grow out of our false belief pattern, we will
naturally attract the great love for which we have been looking.
For more exceptional advice of finding your love, contact Lori M.
Lehnert, Certified Calling in “The One” Transformational Coach at
587.333.1306. Visit Lori online at
www.HealLaughLove.com
to learn more about her 7 week program to attracting the love of your life! |
